When at a loss, things that you may wish to consider when choosing toys:

Appeal

There is no point in buying a toy that will not appeal to the child that you have in mind. A child won’t play with a toy of their own accord if it does not invoke interest. Every child is different and when buying a toy it is important to think of the child and their likes and dislikes. The way the toy looks, the noises that it makes, the way it feels and even its smell can influence a child’s interest. Why buy a soft pink bunny for a child if the child prefers loud colours and is unlikely to sit cuddling a soft toy?

Abilities

If a toy is too difficult for a child to play with or too simple they will quickly lose interest in it. Toys often have recommended ages written on them. This is a guide only as children develop at their own unique rate and in their own unique way. Once again, consideration of the child in question is recommended.

Versatility

This is one of my main considerations when I buy toys. Having two small children, I know what it is like to have what were great toys for a day or so, discarded and stored away. A toy that can be used in more than one way is truly a blessing. These are often the simplest toys such as blocks, balls, dolls etc. Children are usually very imaginative and by providing them with the basics and maybe the odd suggestion, they can usually play very creatively and constructively.

Variety

Quality

It is heartbreaking when a child’s favourite toy breaks, often both for the child and the parents. Quality items needn’t be expensive and in the long run they are worth that little bit extra. Good quality toys can be passed on and used again and again, they are great items to pass down the generations contributing to the bond between adults and children.

Price

There is no need to overspend on toys. There is a large variety of items available on the market and it is possible to find quality items for a reasonable cost. Buying too much is often a trap that parents fall into. A child is likely to be overwhelmed by lots of toys. I suggest that just a few well thought out toys are always better than toys for toys sake.

Safety

Of course safety is important, however children can play with most toys with adult supervision. As parents we are often overly cautious about safety and deny children the opportunity to develop skills through our own fears. In my previous life as a therapist, I saw children that had difficulty with skills because they were not permitted to do certain things. For example, some 4 year old children were not allowed to use scissors at home and as a result were behind at kindergarten with their cutting skills. When buying toys it is worth being cautious however, safety issues can easily be overcome if an adult is there to ensure that toys are used in the correct manner.

Washable

It goes without saying but after having smiley faces drawn on almost everything in my house, I suggest that washability be considered (you can only take so many smiley faces!). Having clean toys also limits the chances of children becoming unwell.

I hope this has been of some help… happy shopping!

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